Worry-Wart
April 15, 2012 § 17 Comments
Do you have a problem of worrying too much? I do! I am only 20 something years old and I think I am worrying too much for my age. Aside from the regular worries such as finance and my future, I have this one weird thought that concerns me about other people.
At a younger age where I was more careless than concerned, I am all about me. But recently, I have been thinking about many people that are close to me to a point of extreme. Like my parents, they are getting older. This is a fact of life, and so is death, but I’m starting to worry that they will be gone and when I have children, they will not have grandma and grandpa. I grew up without any grandparents, so I felt left out, and I don’t want that for my future kids.
After thinking about that, I’m starting to think about marriage. I am 20 something years old and I have not got married yet. Many people in my culture (Asians) get married early. In fact, many of my old friends are all married. Is there something wrong with me?
Then again, to marry, I must be stable as a pillar to support a family. Thinking about my situation, I don’t have that yet. So I have to worry about how I will make money to support my family so my future kids don’t think of me as a bum, good for nothing dad.
And, if I don’t write a blog today, what will my readers think of me? Ohhh noes! I have to get a post going!
Thank you for reading all the way to this sentence. Let me know what worries you in life.
It’s nice to know there are “twenty-somethings” out there who are thinking about someone other than themselves, I think that’s called… responsible! Kudos, I only wish there were more responsible young people in the world concerned about the future of babies they bring into this world and their parents mortality.
Haha. It’s a scary world we’re living in. I am afraid that my wisdom will not be enough for my future kids, therefore, i wish for my kids to have grandparents for as long as they possibly can.
don’t worry much, ur not alone
Can’t help it. The world is filled with so many people but at the same time, you can feel very alone
very true…that’s why I said, ur not alone
but at least, u can still say, ur 20 yrs old something. I can no longer say the same
Agree
As a fellow 20-something person, I can relate to what you’re saying. I worry about pretty much everything, and the world can feel like a lonely place sometimes. You just have to remember that you’re not alone; at the very least, your fellow bloggers are on your side
sounds like a crusade.
lol You’re right, it does!
Don’t worry we are the majority. Thanks for sharing Nonoy Manga
THanks for dropping by. The more people says to not worry, the more worried i become
90 % of the problems can be solved by money. The real problems are the remaining 10% when monetary has no meaning.
Another way to handle it. Lay your cards on the table. Then you will find out if the woman really loves you.
haha. talk from experience?
Too much watching movies. I don’t know if it works in real life.
perhaps not. it sounds good, but it is usually complicated
Believe me you if both of you are transparent everything will run smooth. No more surprises….